Difficulties of Holidays
Some people can't wait for the holidays to arrive. Others can't wait for them to be over and they are a time of grief instead of joy. If people cancel plans or are withdrawn, especially during a time of year when happy families are on full display, please be understanding. It is not a reflection on you or your event or family, they are just trying with everything they have to get through the day, week, month without falling apart. Please support others by respecting their boundaries, when they say no, can't attend or leave an event early, or take forever to respond. Be especially kind and understanding to people around the holidays, birthdays, anniversaries, etc.. You never know what they are masking under the surface. Best wishes for your holiday season, whatever form it may take. You are not alone.